Follow Your Heart – In Work and In Life

Was just scrolling through headlines about the fastest growing careers and smiling to myself.

By the time high school and/or college grads have what it takes to fill those roles the trend will be gone and something else far into the future will be making headlines.

It’s interesting how a job can fulfill different roles.  In my case?  It was an ends to a means.

  • Needed to feed myself.

Paid the rent and put food on my table.

  • Enabled me to do something I love.

Started in HR – got into Tech Writing – then Consulting – all of which fulfilled aspects of my soul.

  • Segue to a dream.

Enabled me to pursue a lifelong dream of being a writer.

Note:  If the Fortune 500 merger/acq hadn’t happened I wouldn’t have left to pursue that dream.

The silver lining to being put into an untenable situation.

The Reward?

Aside from being able to call my own shots?  I got to marry my passion with my love of Mother Nature.

I go to parks with vibes to soak in the peace and the beauty.

Each day after I’ve finished my miles’ long walk to a certain park – am sitting peacefully with coffee and setting fingers to keyboard – I’m visited by these critters who bring such peace.

Critters I’ve loved since being a kid in Detroit where I used to feed them on the same lawn I hit softballs to my dad – often sending them way over his head and beyond the reach of his glove.

The Rythm of Love

What I’ve come to see is they wait until I’m quiet – my attention on the laptop

On my lifelong dream – my heart and soul’s love of writingin the form of a manuscript

They appear in a specific order

Like the stepping stones we walk on the path to those dreams

  • The bird

The male shows first then the juvenile – then the female.

  • The squirrel

Who first runs across then makes his way closer and closer

  • The Bunny

Who comes and patiently waits until I notice he’s there.

I get the sense they love the peace – the stillness of me sitting – one with the dream.

The Lesson?

When you follow your heart and not the trend the rewards are plentiful and build one upon the other.

Follow Your Heart

Be well!

Life After EMF Sensitivity

Note: This is an area that used to cause symptoms – switching station in a train museum in California.

Wanted to share that in the near future I will be doing a follow-up interview with Lloyd Burrell about life after EMF Sensitivity.

Date to be determined.

To add interest I recently spent time in the SF Bay Area going over all the locations that previously caused me to be sick due to EMF Sensitivity.

I’m excited to share this next phase in my relationship with sensitivity to electromagnetic frequencies.

Geologic, Atmospheric, Technologic, Esoteric.

Stay tuned and be well!

The Road to a Dream

Hello all!  Taking this special day to remind people to follow their dreams.

Celebrate Life

What’s special about this day?  44 years ago at 2:15pm EST I suffered a brain hemorrhage that left me blind, paralyzed on my left side, and in a coma.

I also died 3 times – twice on August 6 and again on August 9.

If not for the quick acting of two men I would not be here.

  • My dad who got me to the hospital

Drove up over the lawn and kicked in the door as he called out “Comin’ Thru!”

  • Dr Arturo Paz, neurosurgeon.

He told me he felt me slipping away and that he “…refused to let go…”

There are numerous others working that day who contributed and I’m very grateful to them all.

I went back years later to thank them.

The Power of Goals

Needless to say it was a long road to recovery.  What fueled the fire to drive that recovery were numerous goals I held to my heart.

  • “I will play and ride a bike again.”

My dad would hold me up so I could look out at the lawn under the summer sun.  

I was just getting my eyesight back and wanted to stare at the green grass. 

  • “I’m going to be out there riding my bike soon.”

I achieved the goal several weeks later.  Relearning to ride a bike was very difficult as my balance was off big-time and I was still regaining movement on my left side.  

  • “I’m going to walk again.”

Thanks to the efforts of my cousin MaryAnn and my mom I was able to walk within a month.

  • “I’m going to put this behind me.”

This was perhaps the toughest of all the goals and if it weren’t for the tireless efforts of my mom and dad I’m not sure I would have gotten past the trauma as quickly as I did.  We turned the date into a celebration of life which totally turned everything around for me.

  • “I’m going to live a normal life.”

Thanks to the incredible patience and love of my brother I was able to feel normal far quicker than I might have thought.  He was truly my hero in helping me adjust to school and feeling as normal as I could want.

Looking Deeper

While I made incredible strides and got to a point that people wouldn’t know by looking at me that anything happened there were deep wounds associated with what happened.  Apparently life wanted me to deal with them because shortly after meeting my husband I came face to face with the festering.

I ran into someone who knew me from that time and it brought painful memories to the surface.

Aaron and I were at the H.O.R.D.E Fest at Pine Knob and I had a breakdown in the parking lot as traumatic memories surfaced.

Aaron’s love and compassion were the perfect balm that started a healing that – though it took longer than I hoped – nonetheless completed.

I am grateful for all the love and support I’ve gotten throughout the years as well as the congratulations and well wishes from those who understand this is a day to celebrate.

I encourage people to pursue goals that will lead them to their dreams.

And celebrate the victories along the way!

Note:  In closing I’d like to say a special thank you to Dr. Patricia Paz Arabo for her love and support – from the beginning.  You helped me feel whole again.

She was a child who accepted me as a friend when I – 11 years old – really neeeded one.

More Career News

I’m pleased to share I’ve been invited to promote Port In A Storm on shepherd.com.  

Where it is like wandering the aisles of your favorite bookstore.

A light-hearted paranormal romance it’s showcased along with some of my favorite reads.  

Scroll down to see my book.

I had a lot of fun with this light-hearted paranormal romance including and especially scouting a setting for the story.

For more of my work visit elizabethmaxim.com.

Career Milestone

I am proud and pleased to share a career milestone.  I was contacted by the founder of shepherd.com telling me he was interested in promoting my suspense thriller Mirror.

A Ghost Games novel.

It’s been great working with Ben and his staff.  I found them to be great communicators, setting expectations and working with and around my schedule. 

I invite you to visit shepherd.com where it is like wandering the aisles of your favorite bookstore.

For more of my work visit elizabethmaxim.com.

PhD: The Path Unplanned

A recent conversation had me reflecting on my path to becoming a holistic doctor.

PhD with a Bachelor’s in Holistic Childcare.

The gentleman I was speaking with is a retired psychiatrist which had me reflecting on a class on how nutrition affects and is treatment for many psychiatric disorders.

The class was taught by a psychiatrist who specialized in ADD/ADHD and the positive effect of elimination diets for some cases.

The part of that class I found most fascinating was borderline personality disorders.

Further ruminating led me to the day circumstances set me on this path.

My Bio and About pages show I’ve had many interesting stops along this path.

Life Intervenes

A domestic situation between my parents meant my mom brother and I were about to be homeless and if not for an offer from a woman from the UK we would have been in dire straits.

She was the wife of a brilliant ENT surgeon who was the first in the US to do cochlear transplants so deaf children could hear.  He passed away while at a conference teaching other doctors to do this life-changing procedure.

I met him a month after deciding I wanted to be a doctor.

Six, I needed my tonsils and adenoids out.

One morning as I was getting ready for school 

He was just coming in from surgery and rounds at UM.

After teasing me about not being a morning person and asking how school was coming he asked if I’d ever considered pursuing alternative medicine.

Which was and is embraced throughout the UK.

I explained that being the granddaughter of people who’d lived on farms and understood animal husbandry and our relationship to nature it was innate as a lifestyle but as a profession in the US it was a hard way to go.

As was being a female in a male-dominated industry though I had the support of my dad.

Familiar with the bureaucracy involved in the industry, not to mention my somewhat rebellious temperament

Ahem

He felt I would thrive under a discipline just getting a foothold in the US.

Training Begins

Some  eight months later we were in a rental.  As I was a determined hiker along the college path he took it upon himself to train me in the rudiments of holistic therapy.

Starting with herbs and tinctures and moving on to homeopathy.

Years later I formalized my education eventually earning my doctorate and then the secondary bachelor’s.

The intervening years doing extensive research and study.

The path forward took turns I didn’t expect

EMF Sensitivity anyone?

And as I sit typing this one-handed

Broke my left humorous though it’s healing well and fast

I think on the joy that crazy unplanned path has brought

Including meeting this wonderful retired psychiatrist who makes my life better

Be Well!

A bit of GRAND Father’s Day Fun

On this Father’s Day I wanted to share a fun story.  I’m working on Messenger of the Gods.

Next in the Dragon Core Series.

When I read this passage 

“Coming dear,” he called laughing when she gave him the finger before marching off toward the oak tree at the center of the park in the middle of Warehouse Square.

I was swept back in time to sitting in the backseat of my paternal grandparents’ car, my grandfather at the wheel.

Not because of giving the finger ha ha.

Like so many of us when we were young being in the backseat of a car wherein lots of perfume and cologne was wafting around I was a bit antsy to arrive at our destination.

So I could breathe.

To take my mind off of it he used to say this wonderful nursery thyme.

He’d also wiggle his ears which to this day amazes me he could do.

My passage:  the oak tree at the center of the park in the middle of Warehouse Square.

From the Green Grass Grew All Around:  And the tree was in the hole.  And the hole was in the ground.  And the green grass grew all around all around and the green grass grew all around.

It’s one of the better memories of life but also a reminder that grandfathers are dads and on this day like the dads they are deserve a Happy Father’s Day!

Author Notes: Funny Experience

Note:  Will be short and sweet

I draw from education, imagination, and experience when creating.  As I was working on a scene from Messenger of the Gods I remembered an experience that had me shaking my head.

It’s pretty funny I think.

The Scene.

Mine not the book.

A tech consultant for a Fortune 500 Company I was in Corvallis, OR for a business trip.

Training.

I joined a group of classmates interested in checking out the very cool college town for lunch. 

There were about ten of us.

We found a cool place.

Few things create mealtime agreement as quickly as pizza.

We hadn’t been sitting long when a group of college students walked in.

Scoping the place out.

Our table was near the door so we were the first customers they saw.  

We Can’t Eat Here!

Someone in the group of young adult males said “Aw we can’t eat here.  This is an old person’s place!”

Who US?

Startled by the implication we erupted in laughter.

To give perspective I was 29 years old and being carded regularly.

What -?

What brought on this fun memory?  I have a series character – Seattle vice detective Lug/Lucas Drake.

Who when it comes to beer likes reds.

Aesop’s Cove is in Seattle so wanted to source a PNW beer.

I use various beers from throughout the country in my Dragon Core books.

For this scene I used Mosaic Red from Oregon Trail Brewery.

Located in Corvallis, OR.

Cheers!

New Book Excerpt: Messenger of the Gods

I am proud to share an excerpt from the first project in over a year

Thank you Covid induced burnout.

Messenger of the Gods

Excerpt

Warehouse Square Seattle

Rowan Cahill came up the stairs to see her neighbor fiddling with a set of keys while struggling to hang onto a paper bag overstuffed with cans and boxes.

“Here let me help with that.”  Setting her portfolio down she stepped forward and reached for the bag.

In more pain than he wanted to admit Jake McLachlan waved off the offer barely managing to avoid dropping his keys as he did so.

“Don’t be silly,” she replied and tried to get a better grip on the bag.

“Really,” he insisted, “I got this.”

“Stubborn pride.”

The words proved prophetic as a bottom weakened by heavy cans ripped sending cans rolling away from the doorway and boxes dropping in front of it.

Jake watched in irritation as several cans and other items rolled down the stairs and his keys disappeared beneath a pile of boxes.  With a sigh of the aggrieved he bent over intending to get the keys only to crack heads with his would-be Samaritan who was also reaching for them.

Rowan stumbled and would have fallen had her neighbor not reached out to steady her.  Unfortunately he overbalanced and ended up going head-first into the wall behind her.

Seeing stars from hitting his head twice in succession Jake blindly slapped at whoever was trying to – what he didn’t know.  What he did know was instincts honed by centuries of defending against one foe or another had him hitting out with more force than he would have had he been thinking clearly.  Blinding pain made that an impossibility.

All the air went out of Rowan’s lungs as her chest made hard contact with knees.  A cry of agony snapped her out of panic brought on by having the wind knocked out of her.

“Oh my God, do you need an ambulance?” she gasped scrambling to get off her would-be knight.  She felt awful that in trying to keep her from falling he was hurt.

“Would you please -?”

“Do you need an ambulance?” she repeated.

“I do not need an ambulance!” he snarled.

“At least let me get you some ice.”  Grateful to be breathing easy she dug for keys she saw disappear beneath a box of rigatoni and hurried to get the one that looked like it was a house key into the lock.

Jake considered how lucky the pretty red-head dashing into his home without his permission was that the throbbing in his leg kept him from being able to shout.  Before he could decide on next actions she was back with a dish towel he recognized.

“Where does it hurt?”

When her handsome neighbor closed his eyes and shook his head Rowan looked down hoping to get an idea.  Zeroing in on his right thigh she brushed his hand away and placed the dish towel filled with ice.  “I feel terrible.”

Jake supposed he should be grateful burning pain was robbing him of speech.  It kept him from admitting she had nothing to feel terrible about.  If he’d accepted her help at the outset none of this would have happened.  “Who are you?” he managed.

It took a minute for the words to process but Rowan looked into eyes of grey.  “I’m your new neighbor.”

Jake couldn’t help but laugh.  “I know that.  What’s your name?”

“How did you know?”

“What?”

She hoped keeping the guy talking would keep his mind off the pain.

“How did you know I was your new neighbor?”  She didn’t think he could know given she moved in while he was out of town – a different neighbor shared that tidbit – and she had been ever since.  Until getting in at midnight the night before that is.

“You have to be otherwise you couldn’t have gotten in.”  Not because of any key but because protective wards had been cast over the entirety of Warehouse Square, an area where four turn of the century warehouses wrapped around a beautiful small patch of lawn the city called a park.  For tax purposes of course.

“Oh, well I suppose that’s true.  How’s the ice?  Is it helping? Not too cold?”

“It’s fine.”

“Good,” she said then zipped down the stairs to retrieve cans and other goods strewn about.

“What are you doing?”

Jet-lagged more than she’d admit Rowan shot a derisive look over her shoulder.  “You’re kidding, right?”  Without another word she disappeared inside.

Not about to let a perfect stranger no matter how pretty put her energy in his kitchen Jake grit his teeth against the pain and pushed up the wall before hobbling into his loft.

Clare’s loft.

The thought came from nowhere, sent him staggering.

“You are not okay,” Rowan snapped and grabbing the closest chair tried to force her good-looking neighbor into it.

“I’m not a bairn damn it!” Jake howled after again cracking heads with his neighbor.

“For the love of God you prideful man sit your ass in that chair and be thankful someone cares about you!”

The throbbing in his thigh did the talking and Jake was soon watching his neighbor open cupboard after cupboard as she put his groceries away.  He could have told her where things should go but she was right he was being prideful.  May as well revel in it while he could because as the gods were his witness his damn chivalry was bound to rear its ugly head sooner or later.