Manifesting: When Like Attracts Like – to Validate

Reading an article this morning – an interview – I was startled to find a challenge I faced decades ago discussed by the scientist being interviewed.

Archeologist Flint Dibble.

I mentioned this challenge in String Theory, part of The Science in Fiction set.

Specifically, lack of access to published material.

When I read this quote from the archeologist I immediately thought of what drove me to specifically mention lack of access to published material.

“Let’s be honest: academic literature is difficult to access.”

Something I saw first-hand in high school.

In the Bishop Pair dedication I mention the good fortune of having worked with with Stan Ovshinsky who taught me education is an adventurous discovery – a lifelong endeavor of adventurous discovery.

An adventure that can feel like being dropped down an elevator shaft and being told “You’re smart. You figure it out” as you fall.

Why this factors into Flint’s comment has to do with my time working at Plant 6, a repurposed elementary school in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan.

Flint Dibble of Cardiff University in the UK.

There were a number of doctoral candidates and researchers interested in Stan’s work.

Globally.

Many of them spent time at Plant 6.

Where Stan was a regular fixture.**

One of my jobs was to get research materials to them after the candidates had been been vetted.  

Sometimes it meant carefully wrapping precious books that had seen better days and shipping by special post.  More often it meant photocopying sections and getting those papers in the post.

One of the reasons I was nominated for this internship was related to my voracious appetite for subatomic particle research.

Quantum and theoretical physics.

That I’d been actively researching these topics since the age of 7 earned me the trust of more than one doctoral candidate.

To the degree they allowed me to work with them – helping them – in their thesis work.

As I stood at the copier I grew tired of staring at the farm kiddy corner to the plant.  I began reading some of what I was copying.

Which led to me taking a closer look at materials in the library as a whole.

One of the first things I noted was that the information often conflicted with what was being taught in my high school physics class.  When I questioned this I was informed it was part of the physics curricula for UM doctoral students.

 You had to go through academic hell to get to the truth apparently.

I asked for and was given permission to read the material.

So long as I didn’t take it out of the library.

It came about that sitting in my physics class the teacher made a statement I knew from my work was not true.  I raised my hand and politely explained the truth.  

I will never forget his reaction.

He stared silently for a few blinks then asked how I knew after which he said, “Never mind.  See me after class.”

Over the din of snickers from classmates who assumed I was going to get in trouble I mentioned my next class was a long-haul run across the campus.  Very interested in my answer he promised to write an excuse for my tardiness which earned more snickers and being called a jerk by one of the guys in the class.

When I explained how I came by the information he gaped and said “You know Stan Ovshinsky?  You know about Ovonics?”

I explained I knew the man very well and had been discussing quantum physics with he and Ric Ito among others.**

Thus began a dramatic change in my access to academic literature.

As I wrote my physics teacher let me read his academic journals in the library after school.

While he graded papers.

His actions were a gift that no price could be put on though I did find a way to repay his kindness.

Not to mention his time and his belief in me, my theories.

Stan was hosting a Fermi II Exhibit at Plant 6.  

One of a small number of US Stops.

I asked if it was okay for me to bring my physics teacher.

I explained he had great admiration for Stan and would be thrilled to meet him.

Kid in a Candy Store

My teacher was amazed he would be allowed to come as my guest. 

It made me happy to see him so excited at the prospect of meeting an industry hero.

After listening to the presenters we were allowed to view the exhibits.  As we went around my teacher would surreptitiously point someone out and whisper, “Do you know who that is?”

Sometimes I did sometimes not but he was thrilled to be rubbing elbows with apparent industry greats.

He seemed to understand – though I hadn’t said a word – that what transpired in class made it seem as if I was wrong and therefor got in trouble so he took time the following Monday to talk to the class about the situation, including the discrepency between what we were learning and what was truth.

I didn’t think truth and knowledge should be accessible only to the few.

While most of the students in the class could have cared less a couple asked follow-on questions and one even asked to be my study partner.

We had many a philosophical discussion while studying for tests.

The guy that called me a jerk made sure I heard it again.

Such is life.

Seeing this article? Reading that comment about lack of access? Validating.

Not to mention interesting timing.

Time.  

One of my favorite philosophical topics alongside energy.

Especially thought energy.

On A Side Note

I recently had a discussion with a wonderful gentleman from Jamf about education in a post-pandemic world.  One of the points we discussed was the burden put on teachers to fix an issue they are not responsible for.  I already had the Science in the Fiction project in the works and as you can see, teachers who gave freely of their time and energy – for me – are greatly responsible for its success.

Not to mention saving my teenage sanity.

My physics teacher is but one example of the wonderful people who choose to be there for students in ways that often go unnoticed.

** I was a high school junior when I worked at Plant 6. One day I zipped to Mickey D’s to get a Big Mac meal for lunch, high-tailing it back as I had a busy afternoon ahead of me. When I asked where the cafeteria was it was explained to me that it was closed off and everyone who didn’t go out for lunch ate at their desks. When I pointed out I didn’t have a desk – intern that I was – I was shown to a classroom empty but for a large desk.

I sat at the desk and ate.

While I ate I looked around, noted a few doo dads on a nearby built-in shelf. One of them caught my eye.

It was a chemical model of a subatomic particle.

I went over, examined it closely, noted the errors.

Based on my theories.

It also reminded me of my disappointment with chemistry which I was prepared to love.

Ended up falling in love with physics instead. Go figure.

As I was eating who should walk in but Stan Ovshinsky. Turns out I was eating in his office.

At his desk.

I never found out who the fink was that got one over on me but I imagine karma caught up to him somehow.

After assuring me he had no issue with me eating at his desk he asked me how I was enjoying my internship. During the conversation I pointed to the model and told him “That’s wrong.” Intrigued he asked me to explain.

Which my opinionated self was more than happy to do.

Next thing I know I’m explaining myself to Ric Ito and a number of scientists and researchers, some of whom I’d been helping with their doctoral thesis.

Which for the most part was being a sounding board and – budding novelist that I was – helping them interpret the strict format for a doctoral thesis, something I had to do myself decades later.

How Cool Is This?

I ran into Stan and Ric at a wedding.

Some ten years after my internship.

I told them how I used knowledge and experience gained from my time with them on a Master’s Thesis in college.

Geology research related.

I told them how I got an A.

They asked for and were given a copy of the thesis after which I was encouraged though given some pretty interesting feedback.

Feedback that further honed research skills that came in handy later.

When it comes to manifesting recent observations tell me we have to start in the direction we want to go and life will meet us halfway.

Manifesting With a Twist

Wanted to share a story that is a twist on manifesting.

While out walking this morning I came across someone sleeping on the sidewalk.  This is unusual in that I rarely see this where I walk.

Rarely – not never.

At first I thought it a woman huddled into a sweat jacket head resting on a small suitcase.  I asked “Are you okay?”  Even after they replied “Fine” I thought it a woman.  As I was on my way back the individual sat up.

He’s Just a Kid!

I don’t think he could have been more than 21, huddled in that jacket.  He looked up at me and said, “I’m sorry,” in a way that suggested he was sorry for existing.  

Respect Always

I didn’t want to offend his pride but I wanted to help him warm up so I offered to buy him a coffee.  He initially said “Oh, you don’t have to do that,” but then mumbled, “Unless you want to.”

I told him I just needed time to walk home grab my wallet walk to the coffee place then back.  He immediately said “Oh, that sounds like an awful lot of trouble – that’s okay – thank you for offering.”  I looked down to see a small pile of quarters he said he thought may be enough to buy one for himself. Looking at that small pile I considered that buying a coffee for someone in need is such a small thing.

For me – not for him.

I Love Walking

I could see he very much wanted to accept my offer but wasn’t sure how to convey that to me. I assured him I didn’t mind the extra walking and started toward home.

On my way I decided to get him something to eat.

It seemed a small thing that would make his day better.

I bought a chocolate croissant and had them warm it.

Manifesting Miracles

As I was walking to the coffee shop I went through the affirmations I say regularly.  When I got to “I embrace miracles” it occured to me that I had manifested a miracle for that guy.  

He didn’t have the means for breakfast or warming up after a cool PNW evening. Thanks to me he would have a bit of both.

Deserving

When I handed him the goods the first thing out of his mouth after thanking me was, “I know I don’t deserve it.”

I said, “Yes, you do.  You absolutely deserve it and I’m happy to do this for you.  You definitely deserve it.”

Vibrational Frequency.

A part of the overall manifesting ethos is the idea of like attracting like.  Today that guy’s vibrational harmony was such that I left for my walk at the perfect time to come upon him and then think “How can I help him warm up?”  

Coffee!

Buying someone a cup of coffee is such a small thing and it was so easy to decide to get him a croissant as well.

So he would start his day with some food in his stomach.

I watched him set everything up neatly – as if he was having a picnic.  

He told me he would be on his way as soon as he finished eating – thanked me again.

I wanted to share this story to illustrate that even as we work to attract good things into our lives we may be part of someone else’s miracle.

Which can feel great.

A Gift For Me

As I was typing this post I looked up to see a hummingbird had come to visit.  

A nod from the universe.

Have a wonderful day!

Manifesting 101: Pursue Your Dream and the Universe Responds

Though I’ve been passionate about walking for decades** I’d gotten away from it after a move left me in a place where it was it was a challenge.

Not to mention I was working on publishing the Metatron’s Army and Dragon Core series.

Life Intervenes

Thanks to Covid and biting off more than I could chew in terms of writing and consulting I hit a giant brick wall.

And wall thy name is Burnout.

When this hilarity landed me in the ER I knew I needed to get back to basics.

Live what I write about – a holistic healthy approach to life.

Those first steps out the door in the middle of a Pacific Northwest Rainy Season were tough.

I would come home soaked through.

Not a Choice

I knew from experience that walking is therapeutic on an incredible scale.

For body mind and spirit.

I also knew if I was going to recover I had to keep at it.

Regardless of the weather.

I’d done it before.

Walked in snow and freezing rain and sleet in Michigan while working in a high-stress industry.

Hold Your Head Up

2 miles turned into 6 turned into 8

Every day 7 days a week

I found myself feeling better.

Slowly but surely.

Um – Have You Noticed?

Not really no.  

Too  busy watching my feet as I put them one in front of the other.

I would come home from the morning walk and kick off shoes soaked through, peel off soaked socks and do what I could to warm up.

I was so sick at that point I couldn’t handle coffee.

When I pushed myself out the door for the midday walk those dry socks became wet as I put on shoes still damp from the earlier walk.

And head out in the rain with an umbrella woefully inadequate for the task of a PNW Rainy Season.

Turn Turn Turn

Eventually the seasons changed.

I made a vow that by the time PNW Rainy Season came back around the following year I would be prepared.**

I began to see the same faces day after day.

A number of them told me seeing me slog through the inclement weather inspired them to start walking.***

I introduced myself to them.

So we could do more than smile and say Good Morning/Afternoon

A Fun and Funny Thing Happened

Weeks of putting one foot in front of the other turned into months and Good Morning/Afternoon turned into small talk that evolved.

I came to see that I’d attracted like-minded souls because I’d pursued something incredibly important to me.

Health in mind body and spirit.

Not The First Time

While out walking recently considering how I’d attracted such wonderful souls into my life I realized it wasn’t the first time.  Decades earlier while working for a Fortune 500 company going down in flames I found myself hitting the pavement of Kensington and/or Maybury.

It started with random conversations with colleagues during which we would discuss our plans for after work – usually working on one proposal or another – and/or the weekend.

Conversations during which a number of us said we would be walking at one of the local parks.

Within a short time those of us of like-mindedness were agreeing to meet to walk together.

No Geek Fest

These were never b*tch sessions.  

We were all so done with the stress and chaos of a career that ever seemed like we were Wylie Coyote to the Discrete Manufacturing Road Runner life.

Start Slow and Go From There

Great philosophy for manifesting dreams.

It started where we would talk about what we were doing after we were done with the walk.

Some talked about going out with their spouse or going to a sports game of their kids.  Some of us talked about our hobbies.  Mine was writing – had a dream of doing it full-time – learned some of my colleagues were on the same path.  One colleague played in a band.  Another entered marathons.

As trust between us grew we began sharing life philosophies.

And talking about dreams we wanted to achieve.

We offered advice to help each other realize those dreams.

We Liked Each Other!

Yeah But

We may have come to trust and like each other but walking 8 miles and discussing the meaning of life was a far cry from spending 80 plus hours a week in a cubicle.

We went to the mat against each other if necessary but once we were one with Mother Nature?  The gloves came off.

The Take Away?

Ah yes – corporate speak.

When you pursue what you love you will attract like-minded souls who can help you on your path to manifesting your goals.

** I invested in waterproof shoes and other gear that will get me through this year.

Aaron gave me an aawesome new umbrella for Christmas.

*** I discovered walking as a wonderful way to strengthen after being paralyzed by a brain bleed when I was 10.

Nine months after the incident that caused it – falling off a diving board – I walked 26 miles to raise money for Muscular Dystrophy.

Walking story from Nashville…

Link to Jamf Nation User Conference

Manifesting 101: Time to Travel

In his book I’m Rich Beyond My Wildest Dreams I am I am I am Thomas Pauley suggests adding the line (paraphrasing here) It is seeking me as I am seeking it when writing your goals.

The idea being what you want is attracting you as you are attracting it.  

I recently saw this in action.

As a novelist one of the first decisions I make after deciding on a plot and the characters is setting.  As part of my selection process I take into consideration whether or not I’ve been to the area I’m considering.

If not then I consisder whether I’ve been to a place close or in some other way similar location.

In the case of my Dragon Core series it wasn’t just deciding between Seattle and New Orleans it was deciding on the setting within the setting.

I lived in New Orleans but so long ago I didn’t feel I could do it justice.

When it came to Aesop’s Cove I had the perfect location in mind as a “stand-in.”

I planned on having it as a place I could go work at so I could really soak up the vibe for the story.

Excited to have this ironed out I went with hubby for a celebratory lunch only to learn we’d shown up on the last day.

I remember staring at the waitress in shock as she told me they were going out of business.

Timing

What are the chances?

She brought the boss over after I explained why we were there.  He was polite but strained.

No wonder.

Though I was ready to go forward with the story I knew I had to find a suitable place as a stand-in for Aesop’s.

To serve as a place to go when I needed an energy tune-up during times of writing fatigue.

Weeks turned to months and I could not find a suitable location.

A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Waterfront

For a variety of reasons including serious career burnout I took time off from writing.

A lot of time.

During this time I focused on self-care.

lot of walking.

As I walked I sorted through challenges, mysteries, and solutions to those mysteries.

Many of those mysteries related to manifesting goals.

What I didn’t do was focus on the challenge of finding a suitable location to be a stand-in for such an important plot element.

I just kept walking and “not” thinking.

One day I decided to try to get a bit of work done.  At the time I was more thrilled with the idea I’d be able to do a bit of writing than where. As a result I gave little thought before slipping into a local haunt and sitting down to work.

Ch-ch-ch-changes

It had been some time since I’d been there.

Thank you Covid lockdown.

On some of these occasions I struck up conversations with visitors either local or not.  While I occasionally mentioned what I was doing more often than not I just enjoyed listening to their stories.

I love hearing people’s stories.

I continued this trend and came to see the location was becoming key in my recovery from burnout.

Likely because while I was working there I didn’t associate it with work.

I associated it with relaxing and the opportunity for spontaneous conversation.

I tuned into the music playing, the conversations.

Conversations that took my mind off my troubles.

And then it hit me.  I’d found my Aesop’s.

It only took about a year of not looking for it.

On a recent walk I pondered the mystery of how this happened.  I’d been in that place before burnout and never considered it a suitable stand-in for the Cove.  No sooner had that thought surfaced then Pauley’s words came to mind.

It is seeking me as I am seeking it.

During the time away from writing due to events beyond anyone’s control the place underwent a shift.

Thank you Covid shutdown.

I came to understand that as I was changing through my focus on self-care and health and wellness the location and its employees were also changing.  By the time I circled back around it had become what I needed.

The Lesson  

If only I had changed or only that location had changed it’s doubtful I would have found it to be a suitable stand-in.  It’s because we were both pulling mutual energy for the same or similar goal that I was able to manifest what I needed.

One of the bigger changes was that they wanted to be more than just a place to hangout.  They wanted to serve their diverse customers’ needs in ways I feel is friendlier.

Warmer, more inviting.

More like how I pictured Aesop’s Cove.

In coming to understand this need for transformtive change not just in myself but in some other aspect of the goal I found myself relaxing about a key element in the manifestation game.

Time

I’m more relaxed about how long the goal may take to manifest because I now truly understand it won’t til things are in place.

And that may take time.